Don't wait for Disneyland.
Disneyland bills itself as "The Happiest Place on Earth". It is a lot of fun and there is definitely magic there. But it shouldn't be the happiest place on earth. That should be home.
Home is where the heart is. Where one feels welcome and safe. Where your favorite people are glad to see you. A place of learning, laughter, songs, prayer, and companionable quiet.
The happiest place on earth should be wherever you are with your family. Shopping in Costco on a busy Saturday, I saw a father pushing the cart along the crowded aisles laughing and joking with his children as he had them help look for the items they needed.
Disneyland can be a great family vacation. But it can be very expensive. Don't wait until you can afford a super vacation to have fun with your family. Be goofy at home. Take walks together. Play in the park. Explore your neighborhood. Go to free or inexpensive community events. Play games. Work together - chatting as you work. Share yourselves with each other.
My daughter took me to Disney World for a week. I had a WONDERFUL time. I want to go again. But besides the attractions and the rides, the joy was that my daughter wanted to share it with me. The magic was that cast members treated me - and everyone - like they were so glad to see me / them. We can create that magic in our homes.