Monday, October 21, 2019

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email letter to granddaughter Acadia serving a mission for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints in the Oregon Eugene Mission


The continuing cat tale. Felicity had another x-ray Tuesday. Wednesday I took the cockatiel to an avian vet 30 minutes away where we learned that I have been feeding him wrong, declined a $250.00 blood test (still reeling from the $800+ spent on the cat over the last two months), and invested in better food. When we returned, I took a call from the cat vet with the x-ray results. X-ray showed her colon very tapered at the end. As did last month’s. Suggested possibility of an ultrasound which really would not show much of the affected area. Most desirable choice, medically speaking, an colonoscopy – about $2-3000. !!! I just started crying. Not happening anytime soon, if ever. The good news is that the bladder stones are gone. We decided to keep her on the Royal Canin Urinary SO ($$) for now and keep sprinkling laxative on it hoping for the best. Her episodes are weeks and wees apart. I am supposed to contact the vet if she has another episode or in a month, whichever comes first. She seems ok most of the time. Plays once in awhile, purrs, asks to be petted, eats, drinks – acts like a cat.

I feel badly because I really, really want to go on an Disney Alaska Cruise in 2 years. Which, of course, will take some saving up. One of my first thoughts was there goes my cruise. Naturally, now I think about an Alaska cruise “all the time.” Mildly obsessing over Fish Extender Gift ideas.

A weird thing. I usually go to temple on Friday. Now, I admit that I often have a hard time making myself get going and go. But Thursday I was just feeling bad about going to the temple Friday. Then I thought about a sister in our ward who a couple of weeks ago had request help getting mulch for the large area her now disabled husband used to garden. I called her and found out nothing has happened. So I told her that I would meet her with my old, beat up utility trailer (and hopefully Andrew) at the SMUD free wood chips / mulch yard Friday morning. And I felt good. Andrew, Kathy, and I unloaded 4 trailer loads of mulch on her driveway. It was great. I was pretty impressed with us. We thought she would need another several loads of mulch. But that wonder woman sent me pictures Saturday of the entire garden area covered with mulch. She barrowed all that mulch – well, there was some left for work in the front yard – all by herself. I was really impressed!

Saturday I went to the HighWater Jamboree sponsored by safety and water agencies. Found out that I live in a Shaded X Zone which means that I have about a 2% chance of being flooded by an 100 year flood – unless the levees break, in which case I am under 4 feet of water. I am supposed to evacuate south. Which is good news because Ruth and Debi live south of me in an X zone which means they stay dry. UNLESS Folsom Dam goes. They did not have the information on a dam break, but I think we would not like it.

Speaking of not liking it. Your mom informed us yesterday, not to our surprise, that they are not likely to come down for Thanksgiving after all. Too much to do for the move. And this was the last year that she thought they would come down for Thanksgiving. AND IT’S ALL YOUR FAULT. In your after mission life, they will either go to you or have you go to them and that means not coming here.

It is not all that tragic. My children are all scattered this Thanksgiving except the ones who live with me. Everyone is going to “the other side.” It is better that they all scatter the same year and get together on the alternative year than that they scatter at different times and never get together. Of course, 2020 will be sad if it doesn’t work out for your family to come down.

And there are other days in the year.

No big spiritual insights to share, except maybe sometimes serving on this side of the veil is as important as serving the other side.

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